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Meeting-first dating

Don’t wait for love — date today

Real dates with people you mutually match with — plan it, meet in person, and skip the endless chatting.

  • Free to join
  • Real people
  • No endless chat
Two people laughing together on a sunny café terrace

How it works

A warm, human way to meet

  1. Create your date

    Invite someone to a real time and place — coffee, a walk, dinner. Say what you’re looking for.

  2. We invite a few people you fit with

    We invite a handful of people to your date from the ones you mutually match with. Every invitation is personal: your invite never sits in a big list — the people we invite get a notification, and it shows only on their own screen.

  3. See who accepts

    Sit back while the people who accept your invitation come in.

  4. Choose who you’d love to meet

    Look through the people who accepted and pick the one that feels right. The moment you do, a chat opens just for this date, where the two of you can settle the details.

  5. Your date is set

    All that’s left is to enjoy each other’s company on the date.

Who could I date?

Check how many possible partners signed up already

Tell us who you are and who you would like to meet. We will show you how many people on the waiting list fit.

Join the list, and get early bird rewards.

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Why meeting-first

How we address the most common online dating issues

Dating apps are built to keep you matching, chatting and coming back. What most people actually want is simpler: to sit across from someone worth meeting, this week. Here is what we do differently.

  • The old way

    Hours of swiping, barely a date

    The feed never ends and the calendar stays empty.

    On Yambrella

    There is nothing to swipe through. You get a limited number of invites from people you have already mutually matched with — so what you look through is the dates you were invited to, not profiles.

  • The old way

    Ghosting and matches that go nowhere

    Threads go quiet and you never learn where you stood.

    On Yambrella

    After every date, both of you have to say whether you want to carry on. Nobody can arrange their next date until they have, and a reminder follows whoever forgets — so you get an answer instead of silence.

  • The old way

    Stale, long-abandoned profiles

    Photos from another life, accounts nobody has opened in months.

    On Yambrella

    Go quiet for two weeks and your account stops receiving invites until you log in again — and the moment you do, you are back in the pool. The people you see are people who are still actually here.

  • The old way

    Fake profiles and borrowed photos

    The person in the pictures and the person who turns up are not the same.

    On Yambrella

    There is little point faking anything here. Nobody can date without a photo on their profile, and the first real interaction is meeting face to face — so whatever does not add up shows immediately.

  • The old way

    Drowning in messages

    An inbox full of openers from people you never agreed to talk to.

    On Yambrella

    You only chat with someone once you have a date together, and the thread is there to sort the details. It closes the day after you meet — and if you want to see them again, you send them a new invite straight from that date.

  • The old way

    Hearing nothing

    You send and send, and weeks go by with no reply at all.

    On Yambrella

    Every invitation you accept ends with an answer. Either the host chooses you, or you are told the invitation closed — either way you know where you stand, without having to keep checking.

Less swiping, less pointless chat, more real dates.

And the memberships below stay just as plain: they only set how much you can have running.

Membership

Choose how you date

Each membership simply sets what your account can do — how many dates you can have running and how far each one travels. There is no purchase here yet: every account starts free, and higher packages are granted — by us, or by referring someone.

  • Free

    Everything you need to plan a real date.

    • 2 active invites
    • 2 acceptances per invite
    • Reach up to 10 people
    • See up to 5 invites
    • No Last Minutes Boosts
  • Plus

    More dates in the air, seen by more people.

    • 5 active invites
    • 5 acceptances per invite
    • Reach up to 20 people
    • See up to 10 invites
    • 5 Last Minutes Boosts / month

    Last Minutes Boost is an option when you create a date: in the last hour before it starts, if the date is not full yet — fewer people have accepted than it has seats — we send it out again to a new group and it can show in the Boosted row.

  • Premium

    Maximum reach and room when things get busy.

    • 10 active invites
    • 10 acceptances per invite
    • Reach up to 50 people
    • See up to 25 invites
    • 10 Last Minutes Boosts / month
    • Accept even when an invite is full
    • Your invites can appear beyond someone’s usual list length

    Last Minutes Boost is an option when you create a date: in the last hour before it starts, if the date is not full yet — fewer people have accepted than it has seats — we send it out again to a new group and it can show in the Boosted row.

No commitment · Change your plan anytime · Every account starts free

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